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What's up with the double standard?
Topic Started: Nov 27 2016, 07:43 PM (1,168 Views)
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...when it comes to dating? I see a vast majority of female profiles these days stating "do not message me with just a 'hey' or 'what's up.' I won't respond if you can't carry on a conversation."

Yet.....

When messaging a man, quite a large portion of these women break the ice with: "Hey :)" or "What's up? :)"

What's the deal with this circumstance?

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Product of my environment

Honestly, it's just simple hypocrisy.
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Those women are just really really vain
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I seen a picture on Facebook that was this big paragraph that was essentially: "Don't ever chase a man or ask him out, if you mean anything to him at all he'll ask you. If he doesn't then he's not worth your time"

Like daheck? Men still have to do everything in a relationship? Piss off.
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I've seen ppl say that behind every successful man is a great woman, but then they also say that behind every successful woman is no one. Har har har
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

I've never understood that one...


So I guess gay dudes can't be successful?
Or do their mothers count?

'cause if so behind every woman is her dads man goo that created her even if he isn't in the picture.
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I've not browsed mens profiles on dating apps and sites but I've been told a lot of them tend to imply ambitions for a long term relationship rather than a quick lay, and then the guys turn out to only be interested in sex. Hypocrisy and lies make up about 90% of modern dating, from all genders.
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Actually that can make a lot of sense. You can't really generalize with online dating because people vary widely. So blanket statements, even the one I made, are just unfair.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

Online dating seems pretty s*** in general really considering people put up edited photo's or photo's of them years younger than they are etc etc


Have definitely experienced a few girls calling me boring when the most they'd ever offer up to conversation is "Omg that's hilarious" or the occasional YouTube video.
Being a horny teen I totally just wanted to get in their pants anyway but at least I started conversations...
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I wouldn't know what it's like from a woman's perspective because I'm only interested in women. There are also women who state they're looking for a serious relationship, yet all they want is to "have fun." There are also two sides to that coin as well.
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Yeah, of course there are. I'm just trying to demonstrate that dating apps aren't the domain of earnest, honest men and lying hypocritical women.
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Nov 27 2016, 07:43 PM
...when it comes to dating? I see a vast majority of female profiles these days stating "do not message me with just a 'hey' or 'what's up.' I won't respond if you can't carry on a conversation."

Yet.....

When messaging a man, quite a large portion of these women break the ice with: "Hey :)" or "What's up? :)"

What's the deal with this circumstance?

Women tend to be hypocrites.


Thats it. They are doin this in everything. They want men to be honest and loyal (I am talking about casual loyalty, not cheating and stuff).

They want their partner's maximum trust. And what they give us ?


Hiding back the truth, not being 100% honest and a couple of more.



Thats how they work in most cases .


There are exceptions though.

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Great, well that's basically mysogyny, probably informed by anecdote. I get that everyone gets burned a few times or can find dating hard or tiring but adopting nasty generalisations only traps yourself in the rut, it doesn't help you or the women you might try to be with.

I'd argue men are just as likely to hide things and not be 100% honest in relationships as women are. I'd be happy to put money on it in fact.
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Nov 28 2016, 02:02 AM
I've not browsed mens profiles on dating apps and sites but I've been told a lot of them tend to imply ambitions for a long term relationship rather than a quick lay, and then the guys turn out to only be interested in sex. Hypocrisy and lies make up about 90% of modern dating, from all genders.
Which is why I choose not to personally partake in these silly online dating sites.

Honestly, I find them annoying as hell.

My ex actually removed me from FB because I told her I wouldn't take her advice and join a dating site she suggested

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Guess that's why she's my ex.
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It's not a double standard; just different standards.

Women expect the world from men, and men expect nothing more than that they're willing.
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